Ready Freddie?

Alright. 

I posting about something that I rarely, if ever, post about.

Something that I have limited knowledge and experience in but has been on my mind a lot lately.

Ready?

BOYS.

Okay.. so before you judge its not really on boys, its more about this whole college dating crap.

But boys too.

So this is what I decided. I won't be dating any boys for a good year or two.

And this is not because I have any animosity toward them right now or anything. Somehow I managed to go throughout high school without ever getting my heart broken by any guy. Wait, how did I do that? Huh. Anyway, so i don't have much reason to hate boys, i just feel like complaining.

And here's why.

I hate the whole "BYU dating scene" i don't really get it. i have never been on a date yet, and i definitely have time to figure this whole thing out... but really. it stinks.

Anyway...

So all of High school it is pounded into my head to never have a boyfriend, never kiss a boy.. yada yada yada. 

so sometimes I listened to my parents, and sometimes I didn't. I never was a huge dater in High School. I only had 2 boys friends... each for around 3 months. I never really did anything and I wasn't that girl that had boys left and right.

Soo... I always looked forward to college because its like they WANT me to date! I am allowed and don't have to hide it from my parents or feel guilty about it the whole time. I was excited and was expecting everything to just be so fun and different.

But wait, news flash.

That is definitely not the case

Turns out dating here is going to be more complicated than in high school.

Now i know you're thinking... what, how? College is where you just have fun dating a million people and it doesnt matter!

Well here's the deal... 

I am surrounded by freshman boys. In my ward, in my classes. Everywhere. Freshman boys that either have their calls or are working on their papers. No way am i going to date them! All they want is some girl to send them off/fill their canteen/write them letters. Heck no.

So if I can't/won't date freshman... no big deal then date sophomores. Right?

But, 1 HUGE problem. They are all RM's. 21 years old. Wife Hunters.

You get the point. I'm not looking for a husband. Nor am I ready to become a wifee. 

So it looks like until I feel like I am old enough to get married I will be staying far away from the men...

Awesome.

But hey, life is better that way.

Right?